oh well. blogging some random thoughts again today.

u know, feelings arn't there to last unless u choose to dwell on them. it's all really a matter of choice, whether we want to keep thinking of things tt make us feel sad, or we could think of nice and happy things to bring out the optimistic side of life.

and really, it's all a matter of choice.

and tt includes all feelings; be it sadness, joy, jealousy, anger, and even melancholy. all these are subject to our control and whether they persist or not are all determined by you.

if i'm irritated at someone, it's only because i allow tt feeling to grow. (which btw is very bad.) and if i choose to be dwell on happy thoughts, they will follow me all the day! :)

happythoughtshappythoughtshappythoughtshappythoughtshappythoughtshappythoughtshappythoughts happythoughtshappythoughts........................ *grin*

another thing i learnt about feelings recently is tt feelings b/w 2 pple must be mutual for the chemistry to work out. and this does not apply to bgr only, but b/w friends too. and even b/w 2 pple who dislike each other. only when they both start to hate each other's guts out will they 'successfully' dislike each other.

use this to your advantage and don't dislike pple. like everyone and maintain tt attitude and if you don't change ur stand on INSITING tt u be friendly to everyone u'll find tt u'll have lots more friends. friendships can also be preserved by not taking ur friends for granted and appreciating them when they're around you.

feelings can be manipulated, so cut the crap on how feelings are beyond our control, cause before tt wave of melancholy creeps up on you, realise tt it's coming; or if u're already in it, realise tt u are and take control of the situation. it WILL be hard to get into the realisation and do something about it instead of letting it gnaw on you, but when u look back u'll realise tt it's all worth the effort. late liao. sleeeeeepppp......